Have you ever attended a wedding in Japan?? I’ve just attended one in Tokyo last month for my friend. Everything was amazing, the location, the food, and the way they planned out the whole wedding! And most important, the bride and the groom looked very happy together 😀 But, did you know an average wedding in Japan costs almost 3,000,000yen (about $30,000)??
Japanese weddings are usually very formal, and they have some manners that guests should know.
In general, if you are invited to a wedding, you are supposed to bring ご祝儀（goshuugi). Goshuugi is gift cash for celebration that is inserted in a special envelop for the bride and the groom. If you are a friend of the bride and groom then you need to bring about 30,000 yen as a ご祝儀, and if you are family, it is around 100,000yen from one family. I know it is very expensive to attend one wedding!! So, you should really enjoy the special time for the marring couple!!
It is also important to be very careful with your outfit! For ladies, it is Not okay to wear white or all black because white is bride’s color and black is the color for funerals. Basically, guests are not supposed to stand out more than the bride. Dressing way too sexy or too casual is also a big no no. When you are attending daytime weddings, you shouldn’t expose too much of your skin. For no sleeved dresses, you should have something to cover your shoulders. For men, formal suits with a white necktie is the usual look.
At the end of wedding, you will receive 引き出物（hikidemono), which is a gift from the couple in return. Nowadays, a gift catalog is very popular for 引き出物 so that you can chose what you really want.
It is important to note that Weddings can be very different depending on how the couples preferences, but these are the basic manners to know when attending a Japanese wedding party.
Japanese Words List
白い (shiroi) – white
黒い (kuroi) – black
色 (iro) – color
東京 (Toukyou) -Tokyo
結婚 (kekkon) – marriage
結婚式（kekkonshiki) – wedding
ご祝儀 (goshuugi) – gift cash for celebration
引き出物 (hikidemono) – a gift guests receive at a wedding
新郎・新婦 (shinrou, shimpu) – a groom and a brideRead More